Indian Arrange marriage Proposal

part 7

So.. it was decided that they are coming to see me at my place after two days.. i was still upset.. my mood was very bad.. because his impression wasn't going good to me.. i was very scared to be get married to him.. i thought it would have been better if i would have find a guy earlier on my own..
To marry someone stranger can become disaster..
Now.. it was night time and we had to get ready for "dandiya" ( one of indian gujarati wedding ceremony.. where everyone get ready and play "garba" (dance)..at night )...
I got ready but there were no excitement on my face..
i was thinking that it would be better if things doesn't go right and i will not have to marry this guy..
he was not my type.. but my dad doesn't know what is" type"!!!..
if i say no.. he would ask me the reason for saying "No"...
I can't tell him that dad.. the guy seems not interested in love.. blah blah blah.. my thinking doesn't match with anyone of my family..
Now.. we went to play dandiya.. my friends were upset with me because I was spoiling everyone's mood... They said if you don't like the guy.. just say it to your dad.. why you are being upset??...
I said.. i need proper reason to say "No"...
I can't say no on the basis of this type of things..
My family was different..my culture was different..i can't say "no"  like that..
Because of stress.. i started feeling headache..
I was hoping to not get married to him..
Meanwhile.. my dad called me and said.. i did enquire about the guy..
I took review from our known people about the guy.. ( when my dad said this.. i thought.. he would say that there is some problem.. may be the guy is not good.. but I was wrong!!!)..
He said that the guy is decent...
He is living with his cousin ( brother) in Australia.. all reviews are good.
So now let us wait for two days to pass.. they are coming to see you.. if you both like each other we will fix your marriage.
As my dad hang up.... I was like.. oh my god..!!! ...
dad said all reviews are good.. now I don't have any chance to escape.. he will make me married to him..
Next day.. it was wedding day.. groom came to marry my friend.. the wedding ceremony was going on... I was seated with my friends.. i messaged the guy that he can chat with me on whatsapp.. because it would be better if we try to know each other.. he replied yes.. you can message me.. ( i thought what type of guy is this??.. he should be intrested in knowing me.. he must be curious in knowing me.. because after all it was a matter of whole life!!!.. marriage is not a baby play!!
We cannot change things easily after marriage.. a mistake can spoil your whole life... We had got chance to talk with each other.. because he was coming one day later.. ( because I was in wedding at my friend's place..).. he must take advantage of that opportunity.. other wise.. everyone doesn't get chance to chat like this before fixing marriage ( yes.. you guys heard it right.. don't forget i lived in village.. with less educated people.. and different culture).. my dad might have allowed me to chat with him before they come to see me because the guy was from Australia.. so he might have thought in  a bit forward way.... But the guy.... He was not chatting with me.. he was not messaging me.... I thought.. who does this??
Is he immature??.. who doesn't know meaning of getting married...
Who doesn't know what is love
Who doesn't take marriage seriously..who is not scared of getting married to wrong person..
He should try to know me as much as he can..so it will help him in deciding for getting married..
But he was not messaging me!!!!!!
Again.. his impression was bad to me..i told my friends that why this guy is not messaging me..and trying to know me??.....he is too different..