Indian Arrange marriage Proposal

Part 2......

My mood got off.. because of my dad.. he kept calling me and asked my decision.. i was got scared by thinking how can I decide to marry someone without knowing him properly? ( I wanted to get married the person who respect me.. who become my best friend.. but thought of getting married to a stranger scared me.) I got more upset when my dad again called me and said what do you feel.. i said.. dad give me some time.. how can I decide so instant.. how do I know how is he?.. and he said.. it is like this only.. all we can do is inquire about him.. through our known people.. we can't enter inside someone's heart and check how they are actually.. I'm waiting for your answer.. what's taking you so long in answering.. 😠. I said okay.. i will let you know... Let me talk to him.. until know i just conversed with the guy through whatsapp chat only.. because i was in bus.. ( it would be awkward to talk with a guy for marriage things in public place.. especially in society where i do live.... And the other reason is we should not call someone directly without seeking their permission.. first i had to ask him if it would be okay to talk on call.. and the other most important thing.. if he is interested in talking with me.. ( in arrange marriage things go step by step... First.. biodata.. then.. if it is fine.. then... Talk on call( that too not allowed to everyone.. but I was bit lucky to be allowed to first talk on call.. the reason was.. may be.. the middle person ( who brought the proposal ) suggested that.( that uncle was a bit forward minded than my family members). So the thing was... My dad already spoiled my mood.. my phone got dead.. (but I already informed him that I'm gonna catch you in some time).. we reached at village.. met my friend.. but there was no joy on my face because of all this situation.. that day it was her "mandvo" ( indian ceremony before wedding day.. the wedding takes place on following day of "mandvo" day.) My friend told us to go to room and get ready ( when we reached there we did wear casual clothes.. we have to change to clothes suitable for wedding things..).. we went to change clothes but I didn't get ready nicely because of fear of getting married to a stranger.... My friends ( now ..i had total two friends with me..one who came with me in bus..and the other one was already reached at village before we reached..three of us were College buddies..and the one who was getting married was also our college friend.) Got upset with me by saying.. why you are not enjoying..we all have met quiet after long time....we should be enjoying our get together..by seeing your face..we too are not being able to enjoy.. whatever is has to be happen.. will happen.. if you don't like the guy.. you can say no.. that's it.. what's the need of being upset??. I said I'm okay.. leave it.. then we get out of the room.. and greeted the bride's (my friend getting married) family members.. did some formal talk.. but it was quick.. because they were busy in preparing for every ceremony.. and recieving and taking care of their relatives and guests.. bride's sister offered us to eat something.. but i denied.. it was evening.. ( mandvo was starting in evening.. we reached at around 2 pm.. . so she offered us food.)... Now.. as a good girl.. i should be sitting.. with my friend.. and help their family members with what i can help them with. ( because my friend was like my sister.. her family members known me well.. so it was my duty to engage in ceremony.. and work.)... But i couldn't do that.. because the sword of getting married was hanging on my head.... Now what i did was.. put my phone on charging.. switched it on.. and messaged the guy.. ( it was too embarrassing.. to stand at charging point..and use phone while you have come to attend someone's wedding.. especially..in village with judgemental people..)