When an intruder enters into a group of animals in the wild, rarely will the group turn on each other and throw that predator one of their own. They all exist, survive, learn, relearn, move on. Failure in Nature is more brutal than we as humans have it. Top of the food chain pays off, but who put us there. Each member individually might want to give up on fighting back for themselves at times, but they never want to give up as a whole. Everyone is just as important as the next at ALL times, even more with clear and present danger in front of them.
Why haven't, we as humans evolved to do this, or did we, but we just evolved seeing ourselves as our own race or our own kind, or our own people or just singularly as an individual if the group vibe isn't for you. Why do we feel superior amongst our own? Who decided on a hierarchy? I want to question that person. What were their intentions and their goals for that lifestyle. Was it for their benefit and everyone else's? Maybe just their own benefit? Us not being equal, when we believe we should all be equal, is a catastrophic problem. It defies logic, to just fathom that we are still facing this issue as a smart civilized species and no one wanting or needing to be at the bottom. The only purpose the bottom ever showed was for appreciation for what little we believe we have and hope for a better tomorrow. Not seeing we ourselves are tomorrow, also today and yesterday. What are we waiting on? Who's going to blink first, fuck blinking, I'm serious and also sincere, I am saying it's over! "ITS TIME"
It's all about you, you make a mess, not feel obligated or the need to clean it up, leave it for someone else. Not intentionally not on purpose but because it's viewed as 50/50 so regardless of what else I've done in my own, you now view that because you are working I should be doing half of that one job that you sought to achieve halfway, its viewed as I take action then you being the other 50 must react to that one thing because it's what i was I interested in at that moment. Not that someone or something else was or wasn't happening around that, beyond your awareness, and settled in my mind as my awareness of something else, it's just what you were focused on accomplishing a part of in that moment, not letting anything else distract you from the goal at hand. Thousands of goals could need to be accomplished but were satisfied doing 50% of 1 then expecting the other 50% to be picked up by someone who has this own thing and their own goals their own hopes and dreams going on in their world, and we don't want to feel like we're alone so we find people to share life with, so then we think we must ask them to come pick up behind us, we're busy, because we're doing things, but also not just things, big things, because we don't feel that mess is now ours, we destroyed and created to make it, now natures helpers will come along behind us and cleanse the mess we just so successfully created in our minds, but the mess we leave, not thinking about anyone but ourselves can be devastating.
See we believe we're thinking about them, the one we chose to spend this life with, in reality we are, it's when we get out of alignment within that we push our insecurities outside of ourselves. If we believe we're doing more than someone else we obsess about how little that we perceive that they are accomplishing, maybe not even knowing for sure but we've seen it before, it's always the same.
What we miss is that we are also the same, we watch them, like a waiting predator to tell them they aren't doing enough or to ask them constantly how they feel or what's wrong, after we just pushed our presence onto them forcefully. Thinking we are owed that, like we're entitled to treat even the ones that we love the most, with such contempt. We know what we do but we justify it in many ways to feel good about our decisions, but it's often just the decisions of a dictator, trying to make it easier for themselves and making rules for them alone to follow that are a cake walk compared to those of the ones they see themselves as above, then while everyone else tries to establish dominance under that tyrant, the tyrant is never satisfied, once he has you believing he reigns supreme and you are motivated to not offend him, the whip starts cracking.
