A Christians Guide To Relationships

who are you?

Who are you?

This is the first question you have to ask yourself. This is the most important question ever asked. If you don't know who you are then you can't look for someone to spend your life with. It's a simple truth. First find yourself then your spouse.

Here's where you'll need a notebook.
Fill out the following questions.

1. Who are you?
2. What is your goal in life?
3. What is the most important thing to you?

Here's my answers but don't read them until you've answered yours.

1. Mayfly a bondservant of my lord and savior Jesus Christ.
2. To live for Christ and show his love.
3. Besides the bible. Family and friends.

If your answers fall under the following then your not ready.

1. Your name
2. To work hard at work, school, etc.
3. Favorite hobby or something you enjoy.

But that's okay I'm here to prepare you for it. If your a Christian the questions who are you should not be followed just by your name. Let's find some biblical answers for what you should say. You have to look these up yourself because you need to read it and not take my word for it.

Romans 1:1-3
James 1:1
1 Timothy 1:1
Philippians 1:1-3

Do you see who they were?
They weren't Paul or Timothy or James. No they were apostles of Jesus and bondservants. That was their identity. Paul never addresses himself by his name only but who he was in Christ and that is so important to us.

What is your goal?
What is the most important thing to you?
Let's find some biblical answers for this too.

Philippians 1:21
James 1:22
Galatians 5:22-26
Romans 1:16-17
1 Timothy 4:12
2 Timothy 1:7

What should are goal as Christians be? To follow God! If Thai is not your first goal then a healthy Christian relationship is not possible.

So now below your first answers take a minute to put better ones.

So I challenge you to first make sure you are following God wholely. Then find a spouse.