Hi, so this is basically me describing my personal experience with being Genderfluid but obviously my experience is not universal. I hope you learn something from this! if this helped you discover yourself great! if not but you just wanted to learn more about genderfluidity also great!! I hope you enjoy this.
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Boy/Male
Plain and simple. I feel this gender most days and I'm most comfortable with he/him. I usually feel this way for maybe a few days in a row and that's it(?)
Demiboy
I also frequent this one alot too maybe more than just solid boy. again, just he/him here. Usually for long periods of time. https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Demiboy
Masc Enby
It's really hard to tell when I'm having a masc enby day but I'm pretty sure I have them alot but not for long periods of time. it/he (it/it's more preferred) https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Non-binary
Androgynous Enby
I experience this one quite often actually and I'm really only comfortable with it/it's because I don't feel much of a gender. Usually happens when I feel numb or void of emotions. The time spans very. https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Non-binary
Agender
I experience agender quite often and I could feel this way weeks. I don't really care for he/him or it/it's pronouns and mainly like pet names/nicknames/just my name. It's a numbing experience. https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Agender
Femme
Despite Femme translating to "Woman" in French I can guarantee you that I don't actually feel like a woman/girl. It's like agender but feminine for me with the same preferences above. It's not a rare experience for me but it's not common. When I do experience this I like to present femme and it's not for a very long time.
Apagender
I don't care what gender people see me as. It's like my gender is described as careless. When I'm this gender I use both he/it with no preference for either.
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Despite this list of genders I experience, I always experience dysphoria so if you're a transmed stfu, you can't gatekeep gender identities. Plus, as much as I still don't understand how, you don't have to have dysphoria to be transgender.
Trans or not, y'all are valid.
