Life 101

3. Impress Yourself First

3. People see what they want and will judge you how they want.

You can't change what people think or feel about you so don't try. Just live your life and be happy. Work to impress yourself because if you're impress with what you see, am pretty sure you won't see any flaw that needs fixing for the eyes of others. If they want to see the positive in you then they will if not it's their problem.