Okay people,
for our first rant of this book is about boys.
aka : monsters
-what others think about them
-what people think of you with them
-what they are
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WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT THEM
Okay so this really pisses me off- when my dad buds into my relationships. I mean yeah yeah yeah he's my dad and stuff but my dad is fucking CRAZY. If i even talk to a boy once or text one of my friends who is a boy, then my dad will just randomly think that we are dateing. Like , no.
For example, I texted my friend jaden a while ago on snapchat. I didn't/don't have a phone, so I used my dads while he was doing work. I logged into snapchat, texted jaden, dad asked for his phone back, i gave it back.
I NEVER LOGGED OUT OF SNAPCHAT.
And of course, this would happen to me, but jaden started to text me stuff like that i was pretty and a wonderful person and stuff. Of course, we were only friends and he was only complimenting me. But of course, my dad thought that jaden and i were in a relationship, and he freaked out and grounded me.
(my dad hates it when i date boys)
ALSO, this one time when i asked to GO FOR A RUN (im in cross country and track) , MY DAD FUCKING SAID "no, because i bet you're going to meet up with a boy or something".................................................................................
t(-.-t) fuck you dad fuck you
WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU WITH THEM
Apparently if you are a preteen or you are in your early teens (12-14), people will think of you differently if you have a boyfriend, compared to people 15 or above.
Okay, some teens start dating when they are like 13.. Maybe 14 or 15 but let me get to the point.
IF YOU ARE 13 AND MAKEING OUT WITH A SOMEONE IN THE HALLWAYS AT SCHOOL OR OUT OF SCHOOL OR WHATEVER - YOU ARE TO YOUNG!
Don't be that one ghetto, slutty 13 year old in middle school who hangs out with people who do drugs and make out with people all the time. Okay?
It's okay if you have a boyfriend at 13, but don't be thinkin' about making out and all that at 13.
WHAT BOYS ARE
Some boys are smart, some are really reallllllllllllllly dumb.
If a boy doesn't make you happy, then why stay with them unless you REALLY love them. If they make you smile and you make them smile then you're all good.
But if HE hurts you, and you are in physical pain, then no. Get.away.from.him.
In my bible study group, they leader is so cool and stuff. She was wants us to have a happy life and a healthy relationship-ships. She talks about if you are with a boy because he uses you and stuff that that isnt right.
(dont say my church is bad about talking about relationships. It's acually pretty chill and is awesome)
But anyways, don't let a boy use you and EXPECIALLY don't use a boy.
