Life itself has different definitions depending on the individual defining it but I define life as how an individual sees himself and the world. Different cultures gives different views of life. I may say some limit life while others promote it . I don't support neither am I against culture . I am in the in-between. People and some cultures say there is no in-between or sitting on the fence but I do not agree on that aspect. What of we those who do cherish the culture but find certain aspects as flaws and others see as right. We have been made to shut up about it because who are we ?
The questions that even in peoples life time is never answered. People think they have answers to it but when you hear it and try to make it as a base to define yourself you realize you are just describing certain features or characters of yourself . We never define ourselves based on peoples point. I personally think there is no limitation to the question," WHO AM I?"or if you are being asked,"WHO ARE YOU?". People define themselves based on their name, culture, place of origin, beliefs and physical features but I think that's not you that's what people can find by asking people who have existed in your life for about 5 years. Defining yourself shouldn't be something someone could define, it shouldn't be forever the same definition. Defining yourself should be dynamic because as humans we change just like seasons. Summer brings heat, winter brings cold and spring just shows the beauty of nature but like autumn comes along everything changes, plant leaves die off to allow new beginnings. That's how human nature is. Sometimes we die not literally but figuratively to find ourselves that has been there all along but never embraced. My defining of self changes just like seasons and is influenced on situations and the people around. We judge and criticize people by saying they are evil but never wonder the circumstances pertaining to the action they committed. Maybe if we were there we would have been worse. Each human has evil in them . Some peoples evil is never seen till they pass on. Others own is seen quite too often. All this raises the point that defining yourself has no limit and can change at any point in time.
Stay tuned for the next chapter as I take you through a journey of finding myself. Maybe I'll never find myself. Maybe I will but in all I'll live life how it treated me.
