Kink shaming and bottoms

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Hi! Pls read, this is important to me.

I wanted to take the opportunity and remind some ppl: stop kink shaming. I see all your comments and sometimes ppl mock or joke abt a sexual preference. I don't give a shit that u don't have a particular kink, don't make fun of that kink or preference bc there are ppl who genuinely enjoy it — or just skip that specific chapter and read smth that fits ur preferences! I don't need to know your mean thoughts!

Like I've orgasmed bc of the kink u make fun of — can u see my pov and understand how angry I get when someone tries to belittle me for my sexuality? ON MY BOOK? A book I specifically wrote for women who aren't bottoms like in every fkn gg book out there? This book is supposed to be a safe space for me but there are readers who make it unsafe. I would never expect this from fellow queer women and I'm so fkn disappointed. Also why are you so comfortable joking abt smth intimate and personal like that? How old are u? (If ur a minor pls don't read my smuts.) If ur an adult and comment such things: ur so immature that a stranger who reads ur comments automatically assumes ur a child bc they assume only children have such a low EQ and life experiences to act like that.

I'm genuinely upset to the point it's hard to even continue writing on this book. I keep prioritising my bg book instead of this one bc nobody kink shames or writes hateful comments on that book — and that's the bare fkn minimum.

Also if you are a bottom or sub and want to read from that reader perspective: This book is not for you! Go search "gg book" and they all are sub!reader! You have sooo many options so it makes no sense to complain when a dom!reader book is a dom!reader book! I've had ppl request sub!reader things when I specifically have pointed out in the book title, book description, book intro/info and request rules that I don't write sub!reader things! The audacity!! Literally 95% or more books out there are sub!reader so u don't need to read or comment on my dom!reader book!

I'm sorry for the rant but this is an issue that's been getting on my nerves lately. I haven't been able to write anything since my Jihyo chapter although I promised myself to write for at least 20min every day — and I instead write on my bg book bc I feel safe there and not here, especially nowadays. I can't promise I will update every week (on this book at least) like I had planned to.

Like obviously not everyone likes the same thing but u can just be quiet. I never comment anything bad if I read smth I don't like🤷‍♀️ not difficult at all. There's this simple saying in English: "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything." — and this should be applied everywhere, not just talking, but commenting too. I don't need to know your mean thoughts!

To my dear readers who don't kink shame and actually enjoy my book: have a good day/night<3 don't forget to drink water<3 sending lots of love your way!<333

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