LOVE -The confused feeling !

"Pyaar Andha hota hai " !!!!!

Well it's the very well known line I'm pretty sure we all have heard it atleast once in our life .
So I guess it's actually true "LOVE IS BLIND "

We all have been in love and have thought that the person we know now is the perfect one and that's our final one .... but the end game has always been something different .
We all have loved someone , we all have been hurt.
When I'm saying all I actually mean it literally everyone some of them might not show but everyone's been hurt atleast once due to this feeling of being in love.

Soo the question is "WHY WE CHOOSE TO GET HURT "
Ummm I don't think anyone till date have figured out any answer to this question .
It's not actually like the other person is hurting us .... we ourselves hurt ourself .
Our expectations , our wrong decisions , and the wrong person we choose that's what hurt us .

Sometimes the other person isn't wrong but we ourselves makeup the certain scenario and just get hurt .

I know in most of the cases the people we choose to love  hurt us but I don't think we should blame them cause LOVE it's such a personal feeling and if the other person can't reciprocate it with us we should just understand that we are with the wrong one .

The problem is we have fixed this feeling called " BEING IN LOVE " in a certain criteria of being in a relationship .

LOVE isn't just about the couples !
What about our family , what about our friends and more importantly what about us ourself .

If we just start prioritizing every relation equal to being with our gf/bf maybe we will start understanding the real meaning of being in love.

Now there been a tons of debates on how to know if we really are in love .
Everyone have different opinion on this and I feel the number of people the number of opinions we are gonna get .

Because being in love it's all about us it's not even about the other person I mean it's our own feeling of liking someone so no one else can figure it out for us if I'm in love with someone only I could figure out thus confused feeling of being in love .

I have been through a lot of reels on instagram specifying and categorizing the PHELA WALA PYAR , THE SCHOOL WALA PYAR , THE FOREVER WALA PYAR and many more synchronizing words or the quotations I could say .

I mean how can we just classify this feeling . And more importantly why we even need to put any of the tags on that feeling called the PYAAR .

Let's just be in love freely let's just enjoy it to the fullest and let's just not worry too much if it doesn't workout . I mean it's fine na if any of our relation ends cause there are  billions of people on earth we surely are not God ourselves that we can't make any mistake and choose the right person at the first attempt. 

And maybe most of the times we just end up confusing our selves between liking and loving someone .
It's totally fine to like someone or love someone and not endup with them .
Let's just remember that times as the happiest memory in our life and moveon .

Sometimes people come into our life for that specific phase ..... we get attached and start assuming it to be our last . But its fine to feel so cause we are humans we have a heart so we are surely gonna have feelings . But we should learn to let go and moveon . And we should not blame the other person for us being hurt .

Love itself is a very beautiful feeling at the end when we find the perfect person we will understand why it actually never worked out with anyone else .

But even before loving someone we should love ourself cause only then we can love that other person .

And for all the heartbreaks we all have had ...... let's just say that THE SKY IS THE LIMIT  let's not keep ourselves tied to that one person and to that specific feeling .
Just keep going and keep forgetting the ones who were not meant for us and start being in love once again 🤍