so you think your a man

why is it

Why is it
when a chick is not a slut
It's oh she's a dike
Not cool a chick that has confidence

Why is it
When a lady stands up for herself
It's oh she's just crazy
Not cool a lady that's independent

Why is it
When a woman knows how to fight
It's oh she's a lesbian
Not cool a woman that's strong

Why is it
When a mother won't stay married for the sake of her kids
It's oh she's got issues
Not cool a mumma not willing to take the abuse, gaslighting and manipulation anymore

Just because I've got a pussy but also have bigger balls than you doesn't make me any of that
It makes me any other like me a strong independent confident sexy mumma

It makes me and others like me more of a man than you so maybe man up or stop being a b!tch

So many guys want too project their own issues onto woman and that is not fair on us woman

Sometimes when a woman is just being friendly, you want to see it as we are flirting, then we become the slut in your eyes when we turn you down even though it should be the other way around

Sometimes when a woman is just standing up for themselves, you see it as a threat to your manhood so you go around saying she's just crazy, don't piss her off when if you looked in the mirror you would realise you made them stand up for themselves

Sometimes when a woman knows how to fight she's had a hard upbringing and that's how she learnt to survive it, you see it as I have to know that stuff too or I'm not manly enough for them then when maybe you could be that peaceful place she will finally be able to get out of survival with

Sometimes when a woman won't stay married there are very good reasons behind that, you see it as everyone will see you as a bad guy or that now you need to smear their name because they have to be the toxic one when if you slowed down and looked at your relationship you would see that it's never just one sided but if their is no change and patterns occurring then sometimes it is best to go your separate ways