Words from a Shooting star

1. Grief

~How you choose grief is your way to cope with it, whenever that be in silence or loud.
Don't Jude people for how and who they grief.
Stop asking 'How are you' because that's the last thing they want to talk about.
Instead asked questions about thier loved one.
Share your experiences with grief and give an open invitation to talk whenever they're ready. And don't text them constantly, give them time to breath.
Some people my want to be alone more, in a healthy way.
And that's to be respected as well~

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Grief is always unique and there is no "wrong way" .
If you loved someone, that love needs a place to go to when the person passes over .
For me, it's isolation and writing my thoughts down.
Because that forces me to actually think about it.
But I also don't want anyones input on my thoughts to this.
And it gets better that way.
Never easier, never less painful, but easier to blend out.

Although I still think, the day you don't care anymore is the day that you quitt.
Because caring and grief IS healthy.
And however you do it.
-as long as you don't hurt yourself-
That's right.