Chapter 5: Embracing Agency and Subverting Tropes

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Yay, the secret is out, and much sooner than I expected! I'm really enjoying how perceptive and quick-witted Seulgi is; not only is she adapting quickly and learning to recognize manipulative behavior, but she also picked up on Minho's romantic interest faster than most heroines would. She's a lot more competent than she's been led to believe, and now that she's finally believing in herself, those qualities are shining through.

What I like most about Minho is how he affords Seulgi the agency to resolve her problems with her own capabilities, thereby empowering her while also demonstrating his trust in her aptitude. He isn't swooping in to be Seulgi's valiant knight in shining armor, unless absolutely necessary. Instead, he's content to provide support from the wings while she rediscovers and rebuilds herself. It's a delicate balance between proactively protecting her and letting her be the main character of her own story, and so far, Minho is nailing it.

This week, we also witness the beginnings of the affair between Min-hwan and Somi, what with her wily seduction and his lack of self-control. As of now, she's still keeping him on tenterhooks, but given their lack of scruples (and Seulgi's matchmaking efforts) I doubt it'll be long before they both give in to their base desires. On a meta level, it's so funny to be rooting for an affair rather than against it, all because you actually want these characters to be immoral and spell their own doom.

This show continues to be a delight with its brisk pacing and trope subversion, swiftly nipping conflicts in the bud before they overstay their welcome. At the same time, it doesn't rush through its story. Its scenes feel thought-out and deliberate, especially the juxtaposition of Min-hwan and Somi with Minho and Seulgi — the shared cab ride of temptation versus the separate taxis of tactful consideration, for example, or the fake I-couldn't-sleep-because-of-you versus the genuine all-night butterflies.

To an extent, this is also true for Wonho; while his attempts to woo Seulgi are endearingly earnest, he isn't exactly the right fit for her. Although he pulled out all the stops for a fancy wine date, it's that wine taken on an empty stomach that caused Seulgi's tummy ache. It's ironic, given that Wonho's a chef, and it's also a contrast to how Minho bought simple comfort food for Seulgi on her first day of time travel. It's these little details that give the drama its depth, and that's why it continues to surpass my expectations. (Also, I'm totally rooting for chef Wonho and foodie Hee-yeon to get together. Make it happen, Show!)

In another touching scene, Seulgi confronts her own insecurities head-on. Inspired by Minho's support and the realization that she deserves better than what she's been settling for, she stands up to her boss who tries to undermine her once again. The way Seulgi handles herself, armed with newfound confidence and the support of Minho, is both empowering and heartwarming.

Minho's quiet encouragement and Seulgi's growing self-assurance create a dynamic that is refreshing and engaging. It's clear that while Minho is deeply invested in Seulgi's well-being, he respects her autonomy and is content to be her silent cheerleader, intervening only when absolutely necessary. This balance is what makes their relationship so compelling and genuine.

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