August 9 ,2024
RG Kar medical college and Hospital in Kolkata ,India
A women was allegedly gang-raped and murdered .
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December 16,2012
South Delhi
Nirbhaya case
Women was rapes by 6 men before she was thrown out of the moving vehicle.
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School van driver held for raping 3.5 year old in Jharkhand, India.
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And many more cases and stories that gets burried and lost .
Every year same things keep happening again and again.
This are few of many cases , few of many stories...few of many deaths....that we come across.
The fact that we always remember the case ...we remember the pain....we remember everything...yet we choose to over look everything.
Fight for justice is of not one day ...or of one week ..or years even...it's for lifetime.
Rape , Sexually assault,abuse
can happen to anyone irrespective of their gender ,their culture.. caste...identity
Where does problem really lies ?
In one's clothes ?
In one's raising their voice saying no ?
Where does problem really lies ?
In our minds.
In our hearts.
We promote them to act such.
Our silence does.
Our inability to stand against injustice does.
One unwillingness to stay and fight for truth does..
Our attitude of not caring about the case because it's not our's does.
Where does problem lie is....in impending justice by court that takes years to come.
Justice that everyone sees and accepts....justice that doesn't need a verdict of court.
Justice needs one to break their silence against wrong. Justice is when you fight for your right and not fear what you see.
Justice Is not something you seek it's what you earn.
Saying we are not safe in country, would that solve anything?
Instead of victimizing oneself we need to learn to fight.
World isn't going to change, not until we do.
Not until our action does.
Everytime something like this happens for while we all act cautious .
But what after that ??
It won't change...there are many like those...we don't have power to change them but we do have power to change us.
World isn't better.
It's not better place .
It never was but it could be
It could be of we collectively take a step.
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Those who gets away with this are one who are rich and powerful.
They have connection.
That's what all say .
Power , that's bullshit.
It's not their power but our cowardnes.
Power is not having connection and money .
Real power is our courage, so I beg you all to fight for justice.
Justice that is not of one but Many.
Justice that is ours.
So please show your support.
If we all can do even little we will make better place.
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Most of times we don't raise voice thinking what if person really didn't mean it.
What is he/ she wasn't touching me in that way.
What is it's just in my head?
Many more questions like this arise.
Do not let it eat you , if you feel uncomfortable with way some one is touching you than speak.
Speak even If it's hard.
Cause if you won't speak ...than you would never learn to scream when you need to be heard.
The way you dress, your action or anything doesn't gave anyone right to invade your space .
I have heard people say ,"She was asking for it "
"She was dressed like a whore "
No she wasn't.
She wasn't asking from you
, she wore what she felt she look beautiful on her.
And most condemning thing is most of such comments come from women as well.
Why ?
Why ????
And secondly even if she was asking for it...was she asking from you ??
Did she dressed up for you ?
Without consent even touching is wrong.
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I know I am just speaking and it won't help the situation but maybe it would if you chose to act and support.
Raising awareness among the little one's around you .
Or even raising voice against wrong is all we need to do.
Apparently we are taught about what is good touch and what is bad touch but we are taught how to fight it.
How to address it.
To whom to address it.
Its time we be the solution cause problem would remain same in mena time maybe approach could break away the problem.
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