LOVELY EMOTIONS : UNDERSTANDING IT What happens when you're falling in love?
The initial happy feelings of being in love is stimulated by 3 chemicals in the brain: Noradrenaline that stimulates adrenaline production causing that racing heart and sweaty palms; Dopamine, the feel-good chemical; and Phenylethylamine that is released when we're near our crush, giving us butterflies in our tummies.
Empathy plays a role in the type of things you're interested in. Research indicates that people with a higher sensation-seeking trait and those who are more open to new experiences tend to seek out and enjoy horror-related experiences more. Additionally, if you have more empathy, you tend to react more negatively to what happens in horror shows.
Which if you combine those two, you can pretty much guess that you're bound to fall inlove with one of them.
But you don't really know anything about them so how can you have romantic feelings for them? You've only researched facts and that kind of stuff, you haven't personally talked to them, and your way of 'spending time' with whatever you believe is obsessed with you, is them just harrassing you. (i.e. touching hair or taps and general symptoms of them)
You can't love someone, in a genuine way, just like that. You haven't formed any kind of connection with them because that requires both of you to engage and learn more about each other, DIRECTLY. NOT THRU SOME DAMN RESEARCH. Don't listen to those stalker stories where they think they're dating and connected because they researched about them and bla bla that stuff.
DELUSIONS ''they're totally in love with me!''
So, you've come to a point where you think they're in love with you. Why? because they're harrassing you or trying to, and you're taking it well instead of being uncomfortable.
DISSAPPOINTMENT why you cannot and should not date them.
it's unrealistic. They're mostly busy (i think) with things such as harrassing people, killing people, stalking, that kind of stuff. I generally don't believe that they're just going out of their way for a random 12-year-old (and no, even if you're a teenager or an adult. don't get your hopes up habibi) that's fangirling out of her mind for them and swears to be in love with them.
In a scenario, where you manage to meet them, and they ask to date you, don't do that. Are you sure it's them? is it a prank? Is it another demon/spirit taking their form? You can never be too sure so for the love of god just don't. If you do that's none of my business you asked for it and you're gonna be dissappointed, I assume, I've read of someone having gone through the same thing.
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not only is it incredibly embarrassing to go on about how one of them is obsessed with you and how they 'cheated on you', but it's also probably going to cause you a bit of trouble.
Either they're gonna be amused you're this delusional, or they're going to be really angry at you for it. Or they can start to ACTUALLY mess with you like how the picture is saying. There's many outcomes and many options.
