5: Validation

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I think I have a problem with validation, most likely stemming from childhood mechanisms, always feeling the need to be seen or appreciated for my work or good deeds, or maybe it's because I'm the youngest. I class myself as an introvert who is quiet but not shy, because there is a difference. I like to observe people, admire people, the way they talk and use hand gestures and facial expressions, it's beautiful honestly to just sit and see it.

So then why do I feel the need to be validated and appreciated if I don't like the spotlight or being seen by others?

Note - Btw my MBTI is ISFP-T. And i'm a September Virgo. Thank You for reading. <3 

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