Kape, dre? +tagalog

Move On Teh! (MOT for your safety)

Siguro naman maraming tao ang maapektuhan nito! So for every single ladies and gentlemen out there! Holding hands let's tackle and help each other to MOT for your safety.

UNA, if katulad niyo ko na responsible sa mga bagay na binigay ng ex-partner niyo na hanggang ngayon ay tinatago pa rin ang mga so called espesyal na bagay na galing sa kanila yung mga tipong antique na ang itsura pero hindi pa rin mabitawan dahil mahalaga ito. Well, unlike others I wouldn't tell you to throw it away, burn it or ruin it. Maybe ginawa niyo na but I'm gonna be honest with you guys even after two years of my past break up I still have the bear at ang iniiamag ng chocolate sa box nito at ngayon confidently I'm gonna tell you guys if naka-move on ka na talaga, yung mga antique na binigay niya sayo will be the things that would push yourself to smile and be thankful na iniwan niyo na yun para bang ang tanging ultimatum na pinipilit kang mapangiti. But if you think it would be much easier for you na makalimot , well ignore my style :)

Pangalawa, cut the connections. Sabihin na natin na itatago mo man ang mga bagay na binigay niya sa'yo doesn't mean you will still talk. The only way na para hindi tumakbo ng wagas ang imagination mo tungkol sa inyong dalawa ay hindi mo siya makausap. Twitter: unfollow. Instagram: unfollow. Facebook, keep him/her as a friend but there's a setting where you could put it as na hindi mo makikita ang mga post niya sa wall niya like get no notiications from this person sa news feed mo.

Pangatlo, it's never bad na maging friends kayo ng ex mo but don't put yourself sa point na even before the break-up eh iniisip mo na magiging normal ang lahat dahil hindi, give it at least 3 months of no connection, I know it's hard na pag gagala kayo ay walang choice kung hindi magkasama or sa school projects na magkagrupo don't go overboard sa mga bagay na ginagawa, meaning if inabutan ka niya ng papel para sa project, pinasa niya sayo yung inumin nung nasa resto kayong grupo or inalok ka niya ng condiments, wag mong hayaan ang mga maliliit na bagay ay maisip mo bilang "mahal pa niya ko" signs. You're just lucky to have a nice ex I guess.

Pangapat, lt's always good na nagkakaintindihan kayo. This is onen of the most effective way trust me I've been there done that na. YOU HAVE TO TALK, YOU HAVE TO LISTEN, YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND, YOU HAVE TO SPEAK, bold yan para mainitindihan mo, Sometimes it might take you two years bago magka-guts para kausapin ang isa't isa pero kailangan niyo magkalinawan kung bakit nagkaganun kayo at anong nag-lead dito. Ang malinis na kalooban niyo at pagkakaintindihan towards sa isa't isa ang magl-lead to a stronger friendship. Hep. Hep. Hep. Don't expect too much. Friendship ang sinabi ko ok?

Panglima, ano man ang dahilan ng break-up niyo. Wag kang magtatanim ng galit towards opposite sex. Walang "All boys are the same", "All girls are the same" drama. Don't. You haven't dated everyone to say that at isa pa, maybe your taste and standards for looking at the opposite sex is the same. Look at yourself, you might be the one to blame.

Pang-anim, the best revenge is to make yourself feel off-the-roof. The better you, the better the way people look at you. Use this freedom to find yourself, to do what you want, to be what you want. Keep it positive. Count your blessing. Everything else will follow :)