She Won't Judge

Being a "Slut"

Question : im not really slutly its juss that I have a bad name because of some bitches that started rumors. And I guess because I joke around a lot with sexual type stuff but im truly not a slut and I juss want to clear my name. how?

Shelli's Advice : I had a similar problem when I was younger  Guys could make dick jokes and be "cool" but if a girl makes a joke about a dick or her tits or vag then she's automatically "obsessed with sex". It's stupid. Clearing your name is really hard because usually when you are labeled it's really hard to strip the image, especially a slutty one unless you fucking wear a nuns outfit to school. Just take this ask now you'll know who your true friends are. If stupid assholes want to be like "Oh she's a slut because I err heard that from everyone else." then fuck them. They aren't worth your time and energy. People who obviously don't know you shouldn't have an effect on your life. Shit, in middle school everyone thought I was a lesbian or something because I don't like wearing skirts and hang out with guys. It was stupid. It was until I have a serious relationship with a guy for three years that that little rumor silenced itself. It's high school, and if your in middle school it's even better because by next year no one would even give a shit. As you get older the more rumors and gossip really don't matter to you. And you won't know these people after 12th grade and they're probably missing out on a really badass chick because instead of finding out for themselves what kind of person you are they'd rather assume you're a slut. Girls want to believe these rumors to make themselves feel better about themselves. So when you see girls mean mugging you, smirk to yourself because they are the ones insecure on the inside.

I hope this somewhat helped and everyone feel free to comment about ugly rumors you over came and how you did so :D