A Girls Guide to Boys

moving on

First off I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Whether you we're dumped or the one who dumped them. Either way it sucks for both parties. Moving on is very hard I know it is. But it's what you gotta do. So things didn't work out. Well honey that's life. Find yourself trying to move on but you find yourself occasionally getting reminded of a memory you shared?  Its normal. I was in a really bad relationship but I still get sad over the happy moments I had in that relationship. Some people may say " Oh I don't have a hard time moving on" well I will tell you t his right now that if you have no problems moving on. That means you didn't really love that person. Dating is essentially marriage prep. You figure out who you truly want to spend the rest of your life with. And if you just bounce to a new guy then you truly had no feelings for him. Now some girls "rebound" please don't do that. I am the guilty party because I've done it before. And It was one of the biggest mistakes I ever made. It was not good for either him or me. Cuz I still wasn't over my ex so I was trying to replace him. You don't need a relationship to be happy. Be happy with yourself first. Guys love confidence and hate it when you talk about your exes to them. Cuz if a guy is a rebound all you do is talk about your ex and guys don't want that. Honestly honey, just keep yourself happy. You'll find someone better. Just keep swimming because there are many fish in the sea. And you will find someone who truly does love you. You should never have to worry about if your boyfriend is cheating on you. Because I will be honest I was like that with my ex.  He was very sketchy and when everyone tells you not to be with him and saying he's cheating. He probably is and looking back at it.  That was such a shitty relationship and so tiring. I stressed out so much about it. One thing you gotta learn is that no guy is worth your tears sweetheart. So to move on?  Keep yourself busy. Chill with the squad,  find a new hobble or continue one. Socialize, be active, the possibilities are endless.. just have fun and smile with meaning OK?  Cuz that smile looks good on your face. Keep it up there.  😃 your not alone I'm here, we're all here for you and each other.