A Girls Guide to Boys

I like a boy..... Does he feel the same?

So you got your new crush... Oh boy.
Don't worry we all get them. Now the question we are all dying to know is does he like me back? No I'm not gonna go all professional shit because I'm sorry but it's kinda useless right now. It's all based on feelings. So you wanna know? Well I can talk about this topic for hours on end, but I don't have the time to type it right now and you probably don't have to determination to read it all so lets just go over a few things, the more important facts.

He probably likes you if.....

- every time he sees you wherever it may be a huge smile from one ear to another appears on his face and he says hi to you every time trying to indicate he wants to walk and talk with you.

- he constantly is texting you. Whenever he's got the chance he will try to text you and talk to you.

- he's spending his time trying to get to know you. If he's talking to you till like 3 in the morning trying to get to know you, he's into you. Or he's seeing if he's into you. Trust me those 3 am chats are the most honest chats you will ever have.

- he's calling you, skyping, or face timing. If he says can you FaceTime or Skype or can I call you? He wants to see you or hear your voice.

- doing the little things like holding the door for you, helping you with your books, hanging with you at lunch, sitting beside you in class.'

- one of the big give always is when a guy asks you who you like or what you want in a guy. 99.9% of the time he's head over heals for you. He wants to know if he has any competition.

Now here's another situation. Say you like him and he admits to liking you. Then he doesn't text you as often, or suddenly says he'll see if he can hang with you or you get a bad vibe from him at school, like the friend zone vibe, the I don't like you anymore vibe. Now don't freak out, it's ok. Don't forget he's a guy. There is a possibility he may not like you anymore or he's just deciding what to do. Does he wanna ask you out or not. Maybe there's a roadblock in between you guys. Something that's sorta keeping you guys from getting together. Don't worry. If you worry you over think and if you over think, he will not find that attractive at all. He found you attractive from your personality, if your panicking like this. He's not gonna be interested anymore. So jut calm an relax. Second chapter are some relaxing tips on how to relax when your stressing over a boy, so just look through those and find one that suits you.

So say you are moving at the end of the year or something, you really like him and he really likes you. What are you gonna do? Well go for the relationship. This is how you can tell how much he cares for you and how faithful he is as a person. If he agrees to the relationship and you guys are always in contact, he's a faithful guy a real man. The reason I say go for the relationship is because as a teen you wanna try and date as many people as possible. As teens we are young and innocent. Dating when your an adult is much harder. And plus if you date many people as a teen, then it is easier to find the right guy for you who you will eventually marry. One of my favourite sayings is " with every heart break, you are one step closer to your soulmate" and you know who said that? My dad.

So wondering if he lost interest or if he does like you? Don't worry about it, the more you worry and the more you think negative thoughts, the more a negative outcome will happen. Guys like a chill girl, if you ain't chill, that's not appealing to them. Just do yourself a favour and calm down. Come on take a deep breath. You'll be okay, and if he doesn't like you in the end. Just get back up and continue your day.... Trust me when you do this you feel so much better.