Life

Change.

Such an integral part of our life.

We experience so many kinds and various forms of changes in our life every single day, don't we ?! Changing our clothes is, for example, one of the most common kind of change. Even though it such a routine thing and sometimes even barely considered as a CHANGE as such, but it is.

As every different individual of our kind, some of us can easily adapt to the changes around and some have a difficult time accepting them. I, for one, am the kind of person who does not like change. When I wake up everyday,I need to know what I am going to be doing all through my day and any sort of change in my schedule reaallllyy gets to me. I get frustrated, annoyed and basically run around screaming like a mad woman.

BUT

There's only so much in life that we can control. Even though the fundamental nature of our species is modified to have control over every single thing we desire but it just can't happen you see. And the sooner we realize that, the better it is. Whether it be a relationship you were in, or a test you just wrote, or a presentation you're giving in your office/class. If your relationship is not meant to be and you are destined to be with someone else no matter how hard you try for it not to, it will be over. You have no control over it and you can't change that. Of course, it would momentarily hurt and you'd be mad at yourself and the other person and the universe in itself that you could not hold on and save your relationship but that's just temporary. It won't last forever. It can't. In the exact same way your un-comfortableness towards change won't last forever. And you have to tell that to yourself every time you find yourself struggling to accept any sort of change that this is a thing, this is a situation and its happening and it is going to happen at all costs and there's nothing you can do to stop it. The only thing you can do in such a situation is to convince yourself that you've got this. You can do this. You can handle this.

Because if you stay rigid and don't start adapting yourself to your life, you will only end up struggling all your life. Because there are certain things you have to accept no matter what. Whether you like it or not. You won't have a say in it. And you'll struggle with it for a while but that's okay. It's only human. But you need to keep a positive perspective towards life and have determination that you can do this. Only then, can you gain peace in your life.

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Author's note –

Hello everybody !

This chapter is a little shorter than the rest so I apologize for that firstly. But I promise the rest would be longer. And secondly I will be updating every Monday. Please vote and comment how you thought it was and anything you would like me to write about. 

Loads of love,

- A