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Don't care about what people say

Ok so basically, there are people who pretend to not care about what others think or say about them. And then there's others who just start crying their eyes out and wailing like no tomorrow.and I guess in both perspectives, it still sounds irrational. Idk maybe it is maybe it isn't.

For those who pretend, DONT. If you do, trust me, they will know. And for those who cry it out or get pissed, DON'T. If you do, trust me, it will make then satisfied. And SO there's just one explanation to it, SIMPLY DO NOT CARE. And when you do, count to 10, if you do, trust me, it helps. think happy. Think crazy. Think awesome. For the majority of the time, when you do this, and you do it for real, their satisfaction will go down to limited and then it will go down to zilch. And we aren't going to hurt them, we are going to help them become better people and to treat others and THEMSELVES right.

And we need to show them and ourselves that the only person we should try to be better than is the person we were yesterday. Now don't get me wrong. At least once in a while, we say some pretty harsh things about people. And this is a fact. We do and it will most probably hurt. But I guess this is how us humans work to try and be better than others, because we want that satisfaction at least once in a while. Right? And so if people to say harsh things about you, you need to count to ten and think rationally about why they would do that or basically think WHY WOULD I DO THAT? You need to think rationally about their context, their upbringing, their beliefs and their opinions and you need to relate it to yourself and your context and beliefs and upbringing. Because if you think carefully, if a person love's, if a person cries, if a person needs a hug once in a while then they are human and have emotions, I mean come on, Hitler fell in LOVE with a JEW. He had a heart and just because he was some kind of evil person who wanted to end the human existence of Jews, he never visited a single camp or holocaust or anything like that. He was human and had emotions just like any other. But it's just the way that he was brought up. And TBH if there's a really smart and maybe conceited person then they could possibly have a chance to change Hitler to have been a better person. Did you guys even know that all the people that surrounded him were a very bad influence and that brings us to his upbringing.

So if I can believe it, then so can you. And in all honesty, we would always want to get that satisfaction and Hitler wanted that satisfaction 24/7. Literally. We may hurt people but in the end they should understand. So simply do not care what people say about you or think because they may have something going on that they want to hide by using harsh words or acting a different way to you and we all need to accept that.

Hey peeps this is something that happened to my friend the other day and it kind of got her to think why would that person be so harsh and I told her that we do it once in a while and we should accept it and I basically just told her everything of the above. ♡♡♡♡ love Tabs