Live And Love And Laugh

Take it or leave it

Life can be unfair at so many levels.
-abuse
-harassment
-bullying
-divorce
-poor
- and so many more.

I guess, we all have a way of trying to make ourselves feel better and we sometimes do it by being dominant over the ones we love. We try to make them feel bad and hurt even though we have gone or go through the exact same process. But I guess for some people, it's just a way to deal with things. Sometimes through this process, these little chances become something big, however some people aren't sure if it's a good chance or a bad one so they begin over thinking,and then overthinking becomes stressful, and then you would just not know what to do. For me, personally, I think about the chances I get but I almost never over think, and what I do is practically just balance the pros and cons and them come with a solution. Whereas I have this friend who, when she gets chances, it's like a split second desicion for her, she quickly makes a no or yes answer. And for her and many others, this way of choosing can be successful. When you get a chance, you either take it or leave it. In many cases, leaving that chance just lowers your self esteem cause most of the time, you have chosen the wrong answer.

There's this philosophy that ''you should always 'take that chance' so there won't be any regrets later on.''

And this is just saying, always take your chances and you will never regret it. Even if you don't succeed, you still get something good out of it, you could have learnt something perhaps or maybe experience, put it in your resume if you want. The main important point is that you won't regret it. And don't procrastinate, do positive thoughts and be a role model for others.

♡♡♡ hey guys, I wonder if you guys actually try and connotate what I'm trying to say. If you do then we'll done.♡♡♡♡