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friendship roles

There are two important roles that are and should be included in your life.
1. Family
2. Friends.

Witout family, there's another source in this world called friendship. And without friendship there's another source called family. They kind of cancel out each other, like division and multiplication. And each role has a crucial point to your life and the way you live. During my primary school years I really didn't have any friends, well I did but I didn't know the meaning of it and I don't think my ''friends'' did either. And to make sense of that, I cancelled it out and made my younger brother my best friend. And then did I make sense of it. It didn't matter that he was my brother but it was the fact that acted like I wasn't even from his blood. It was funny cause I still tell him my secrets and he still tells me his and we don't snitch each other out.! I know.
So anyway by the time I got to high school, I had a rough idea of what friendship is like. My first 'friend' went through to about the first week of term 2. She just was obviously a very serious, I guess she was a  condescending person but she was nice. She just ... had a hard time showing it and I accepted that. Ok so week 2 term 2 is when I met a group of girls and I met them through a primary school friend. And slowly, a bond began to form between us 3 girls (later becomes four... will explain story in another chapter) and we had become the bestest of friends through trust, fights and mixed emotions.  It's natural that bffs would stick together and would feel uncomfortable when having a fight and I guess it kind of reminded me of my younger brother and I so whenever me and my friends would argue I would cancel it out and be with my friends and that's also life balance. In friendship, for the majority of the time, there needs to be arguements, and if there aren't then trust me I don't think that's what u call a close friendship. My friends and I most probably argue 100 times a week. Yah I know. But I LOVE THEM TO BITS and I wouldn't trade them for anyone and this is a balance of friendship, because it needs to be healthy. Usually you need to be able to find that one friend for you and you guys should be able to just... click. And I guess this is where urmine5, ronymacaroni, and pink_blush123 come in to the picture. Strange huh? I have never met them personally buy from the chats, they are simply the definitions of friendship. There's so much strong friendship and as you grow it will become stronger.

Make a dedication to any of your friends.!!!

Your friends should be supportive no matter what the issue at hand is. If health required then they will have a point.

Your friends should admire you to be who you want to be no matter how embarrassing you are.

Your friends should never be able to not help you in any way.

If they don't do any of the above, try and learn to love them for who they are and teach them to love you just the way you are!!♡♡

This is dedicated to an awesome brother and the bff brother. Pls follow him since he is uh... very anti social when it comes to society. Dedicated to ablahalnour