La VITA E Continua(life Goes On)

Influence

At some point of time or other we all have been through a phase were only influences used to make our life work & that's what we were  influenced creatures all the while..
We didn't knew or never even got the opportunity to find out our original selves..
Like if we are around people we let them take toll over us & we forget that even we to are separate individuals..
We too can have our own thinking though it may be out of the world or uncommon..but we could be us..
During schools & colleges we act due to peer pressure & are under high influence of our friends we just seem to do what they want us too..we don't seem to have our own opinions..we just take what other says us..we don't have any thoughts of us our own feelings & decisions..
Like if you stay in a conservative joint family..& they are your cousins who have great communication skills and you lack them & you fall behind thinking that what they might be thinking is always right,and you should just go with their decision..as they seem more confident enough & agreeable to the world as people accept their views than yours..
You seem so low of confidence that even though deep within you know that you are most probably correct & your peers are outright wrong but still you go with them because you are so much influenced that they are right & you would always be wrong..no one would accept what you do & believe in you that you just go with the flow !! You don't think that its important to have & seek your own opinions at times you need to question yourself so as to be good..
I don't say that influences are always bad,their are good times even :)
If a bad influence pushes you deep down a negative wrong path then ; in the same way a good influence brings you back to life..it gives you back the light & zeal to live that the words coming from a positive..
Influence plays an important role in your life weather you need them or not..
Like from the time you come to the world the biggest ever influence is your family alias your parents..
Most of all they seem to be positive only but some don't have that pleasure even; which leads to their downfall..
At every stage we face & come across people who will somehow influence & play a major role in the kind of actions you take for your future as well as present & they will make you who you are..
Bad takes you to places where you bully other people ; go against your elders & dwell into habits that you shouldn't have taken up before time..
Good makes you happy; gives you the confidence to act good & have faith in what you do..
So this is life with all its pros & cons but it still tends to move on at its own pace :)
Like we say LA Vita E Continua-"life goes on"
Authors note :
Like I was talking about influences..Wattpad & its unlimited great writers played a major role in influencing me to put down my views & make an effort to write without fear..
I can't thank wattpad enough..
Last but really not least the dedication to the wattys ,this confidence was given by my very friend of here ReebsThePhoenix :)
Her influence was great..Thankuu so much..I have been a lazy dolt but the network was at fault..
Thankuu people plss keep on supporting me so that I feel motivated to write :)
Good day !!
Bless you all :)