La VITA E Continua(life Goes On)

Forgive & Forget

This phrase is used many a times may be most of the times even, but I'd this true??
Do we people actually believe in it??
Do we practice this is this easy,feasible??
Many questions came in my mind constantly bugging me..
What do you actually & when do you actually need to use this phrase-Forgive & forget??
I guess & believe it's only when we need to let go & forget the bad n evil that had happened..
When we are truly hurt..
When we need to let go of memories so that you can move on in life..
When you need to be free from being yourself choked from your own thoughts & thinking..
When you need to act wise & mature..
These are mostly the instances where we actually use this phrase & think about it..
But is it easy to forgive & forget someone just by thinking about it??
Naaaaahh it's hell not easy you go through hell & be back to even take a decision about it..
For people its easy to say 'forgive it child god has planned something good for you'
It's not that easy please..it takes courage & lots of strength..
We ain't saints or perfectionist to lead life as it's meant to be..
We commit mistakes we learn we realise & this process goes on till the end..
We may forgive the person who did bad to us but can we forget the deed done by them??
Its a noooo again..
According to me we never forget stuff & things that actually made us feel & suffer for long/short time that we never wanted to experience..
It imprints itself..
It leaves our own mark weather good or bad..
It's teaches us a lesson for the lifetime..
It's like a constant reminder to us whenever we cross path with it or ever go near the memory line..
Forgiving is easy & we even do out off courtesy or say we act wise by forgiving the person & letting it go..
We even do it for our peace of mind, but the memory stays imprinted on us & creates its own place down our heart & mind were we have millions of other trapped & fondly stored..
Though we lock them up by various other happy memories but they are there deep within like a constant lesson & reminder it's unforgettable..
It's us it's we who stay strong & act wise n all grown up by pushing it down ignoring and finally moving on towards a new chapter of life..
So its finally & always depends on "US"..
How we take life Situations & how we handle them to learn new stuff & keep on constantly moving ahead n achieving what we actually dreamt off always wished to have in life..
It takes courage effort & will to move forward in life & actually LIVE..
We have just got a single living life why sit & cry regret ? When we can just live happy by being a Lil more strong a Lil more mature n a Lil more forgiving & letting it go..
" LA VITA E CONTINUA" as it means life goes on..
"LA VITA E QUELLO CHESI RENDONO" it says life is what you make it..:) :) :)
NOTE:
I loved writing about this topic where we constantly need this reminder in life..
I have known one strong lady who even after going through allot has survived & is doing well and is constantly trying & happy !!
She is the one I look upon & love her most
tianna996 love you so much..:*
People do read her book its great n I love it..:)