questioning everything

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so.. The other day I heard about a romantic orientation on the aromantic scale called Lithromanic. Definition:
"Somebody who is lithromantic can feel romantic attraction towards others and also enjoy being in romantic relationships but only in theory. They do not need the affection to be reciprocated, and as such do not usually feel compelled to seek out a relationship with their crush. Some lithromantics may also stop feeling their romantic attraction once in a relationship."
I have had MANY crushes in the past... But tbh if I ever learned that they liked me back or something like that, I would get really uncomfortable and just stop liking them all of a sudden. Or for example if I like someone and then realize how weird it would be if they actually liked me or if we dated. Sometimes I feel that I can never be able to hold a romantic relationship with somebody just because of how weird it would be to eventually date them. I don't know.. This may be some dumb thing that I'm stressing out about for no reason, but it's been on my mind a lot recently.
-Lauren :|

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