Being the bigger person and Try to just be positive

Trying to always be the bigger person

         Just trying to be the bigger person is difficult. No matter what setting or situation there will always be some one either testing you by pushing you to a point where you feel as if the only way out is to just smash them or some one (maybe a group of people) always doubting you, but being able to just walk away from all that negativity takes a lot of heart & even still those people will still be right there over & over again, as if they want to see you fail. One of my favorite lines of a certain rap song states: :"Never let'em see you sweat stay cool as a cucumber." At times it just isn't that easy. I'm also sure plenty of people have heard from someone; if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all". Even that can be the most difficult, because the people who want to cause you themost pain and just want to see you fail seem to be the people who you may even care about the most or even love so much. This chapter is a very personal one for me & I'm not going to be using any names, but unfortunately at times being the bigger person is a loose loose situation but in the end all the hard work & toung bitting will eventually come back around. There are many examples i could include but, I'm being the bigger person. I am now able to start forgiving & just let certain things just roll off my back.  Life is way too short to always be involved in these types of silly tit for tat on going issues. Adults should b able to communicate & solve these types of things not just add to them. This is just my opinion here but family is important & again I know all families can't get along but being able to just walk away from the nonsense & actually be able to be that bigger person brings a so much more satisfying feeling than letting your emotions get the best of  you & doing something you're surly going to regret later. #hardworkpaysoff #trustingod #family #lovemyson #forgive #missingmyownlittlefamily