My thoughts....

Is it bad to have trust issues?!

Hey beautiful people!!!! Again I got another request AND this question is SO important to me... He asked for me to write about from MY personal experience... SO I'll be writing it Biblical but..I'll be putting my input outside the Bible and religious matters!!! SO ENJOY!! ☆

Question:⇨  Is it bad to have trust issues??

     OKAY..... to be honest I would say that I don't really blame you for having trust issues..but it all depends on what had happen before. For example.. I'll take MY life.. When I was little I always thought my dad and mom would stay together and grow old without breaking up or getting a divorce. (Don't judge ME I mean every little kid thought the same thing. Right?? )

To be honest as a little girl I couldn't wait to fall in LOVE and get married.. Because of How I saw my mom and dad were. But that ALL stopped when after 13 years of marriage they decided to get a divorce!! I mean like really?? (A/N: LOL!! I'm kinda getting emotional... ) . The thought of getting married shattered Because I thought that if my mom and dad couldn't live happily ever after, so do I. That's ONE of the reason I have trust issues with guys. Every time someone do try to get close to me I actually end UP pushing them away... but can you blame me??

Next example is..... if  it had something to do with friends.  Now I think everyone has had at least a so call friend did something and made you feel like you were back stabbed.... right??  The example I'm about to use never really happened to me yet.. but has happened to a close friend of mines.

She had dated this guy.. and I guess she had or still do LOVE him..but their relationship was basically an "on and off" relationship.... but something really bad had happened between the two so they decided to end things for REAL this time (which I knew would never really happened). A few months had passed by and Nothing happened but me and the girl had a mutual friend. who started to talk to her ex...AND had ended up dating.

During the time the second girl and the guy was dating my friend was jealous of it and felt like she was back stabbed.... which results in her NOT being able to keep a stable relationship.  In this case I would say..there's NO point of having trust issues for that. I mean be true to yourself.. there's going to be a time where you can't even trust your OWN close family.

NOW... is it bad to have trust issues???...... it ALL depends.. don't let something petty let you lose faith in people.. I have been hurt so many times that im surprise that I still have faith in people but ALL I do is don't let people get close to you.

My advice:: DON'T get attached to people easily!

and if YOU are Christian.. trust yourself and God.. he'll put someone on your path.

⇨⇨Thanks for asking AND hope this helped!! I tried my best to answer How I can...... if it's bad PLEA tell ME!!

Psalms 22:5 NLT

"They cried out to you and were saved. They trusted in you and were never disgraced."

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