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Why we have to let go?
Ramai cakap if you love someone you have to fight for them. You have to try your best to be with them. No. Sometimes we have to let them go.
WHY? Why we have to let go of someone we love so much? Because if they are unhappy with us. Why we have to force them to stay?
We can't simply force someone to love us. If they are unhappy with us, let them go. Let them find their own happiness. Even it hurts.
Maybe they will find their own happiness if we let them go. If they insist to go, we can't force them to stay.
It's going to be hard. It's never easy to let someone go. Easier said than done. But as you grow older, you need to know when to let go.
Walking away from certain situations and painful memories is a step forward. There is so much to be achieved in the short span of our live.
Sometimes the changes we don't want are the changes we need, to grow. Personal growth and change can be uncomfortable sometimes.
But if you want to go back with someone you used to love. It depends on you. You have the choices. But please do better. Do more.
If you want to move forward, then forgive them. Then you can be at ease and moving forward with your life. It takes time to forgive someone.
You will be at your lowest when you try to let go someone you love. But it's okay sometimes you have to sacrifice for their happiness.
Seeing the person you love happy. With or without you. That's one of the best feelings.
The hardest part about growing is letting go and moving away from our comfort zones and moving on with something new.
Even kadang rasa penat nak start over someone new. Kena belajar dia suka apa, dia tak suka apa. Kena mula balik. With total stranger. Penat.
Ramai tanya kenapa lepaskan kalau sayang. Sayang je tak cukup. Dia bahagia ke dengan kita. Dia boleh tahan ke dengan kita. Dia happy ke tak?
So many things have to be considered. Love is not enough. There are so many things we have to think if we want to be with someone.
It's not easy. If you can't tolerate their bullshits and uncontrolled outbursts then why you have to be with them? Learn to accept first.
I know you are afraid of the fact that you can't meet someone like them anymore. I know you are terrified of being alone again.
Sometimes no matter what you do to fix what's broken and try to work to things out, you seem to failed miserably. Why? Because it's not meant to be.
That's why you need to let go. To be happier. To be wiser. Because all the mistakes you have done, you gotta learn from them.
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