The Ugly Truth

Nice Guys Finish Last?

Well hello there hopeless romantics and desperate lonely beings. 

Today, I wanted to talk about nice guys since I am so inspired and give my opinion on why us girls normally don't choose the nice guy. At the end I'll tell you why I was inspired by giving you a summary of my day the other day You can read it or skip it, I don't really care. 

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"Nice guys finish last, but we get to sleep in."
 Evan Davis quotes 

Why Nice Guys Don't Get the Girl

1. Girls are generally superficial. Most nice guys aren't much of lookers and most girls, no matter how much they deny it, are superficial in some way, shape, or form. Sadly, this is what I have seen and experienced so I know what its like. Plus a lot of my friends are really nice but they never seem to get the girl. 

2. Some nice guys are really shy. They don't take that directive to talk to the girl because they lack aggression which can be a good or bad thing.  Girls unfortunately like more aggressive guys because its a sign of protection. I am not saying we like HULK type of guys but the attraction to aggression is still present. So, when you are shy it doesn't say you can protect the girl much. 

3. I don't know about you ladies but I usually associate nice guys with push over and sensitive. A lot fall into this category and a lot of girls find this unattractive. 

4. Nice guys get offended way to easily. I'm not saying all nice guys do this but I know that a lot of my friends have asked me out and I have said no and their reply to that was, "Oh it's because girls like guys who abuse them huh? And they just like little boys who will hurt them!" Seriously, 95% of nice guys may think this way or similar to this. They think the girl is being stupid, but in reality its not that we don't want nice guys. We just don't want that guy. 

5. Nice guys are beggars. Great guys are catches. What I mean by this is that, girls don't want nice guys because they tend to let the girls take control of the relationship when almost every girl wants that dominant alpha male type. Girls may say they want nice guys but what they really want is a Great Guy. 

6. Women want a man to own his identity and lead -- something even nice guys can pull off. They can become the leaders and still be nice but us girls need to tell them what we want ahead of time. Otherwise, he will always be subordinate. 

I want to leave you guys with this quote from askmen.com

"Mr. Agreeable never gets the girl. He never gets the second date after the first because he's boring. What being so agreeable tells a woman is that you do not have enough self-respect to stand up to your own values." 

My Day Of Inspiration

So the other day I took my local public transit to downtown since it is the fastest and easiest way to get there and I don't have to waste money on gas when I can ride for free. Right when I get off the train, BAM, a guy walks up to me and says, "Baby, baby!" And me being me, I ignore him and keep walking although I have to admit I looked good that day. Anyways, so he continues to call and finally I get so annoyed that I turn around and say, "What?!?" And his intelligent reply is, "Can I make you smile." 

Me: "No."

Him: "Come on, lemme make you smile." 

Me: "Bye."

Him to his friends who are now following me, "I can make her smile huh?"

Besides being creeped out that they are following me, I continue to my destination of Victoria'sSecret and they FINALLY leave me alone. When in Victoria's Secret a guy looks me up and down then walks over and says, "You would look good in that in my bedroom." And he points to this "set". I am pretty annoyed now so I just roll my eyes and continue my shopping while he follows me, pointing out stuff that I would look good in. I leave and go to Jamba Juice and when I get my drink, the guy that served me writes his number on the cup. I just walk away and go to a whole bunch of different stores to get a dress and heels for a special occasion.

When I am done, I walk by the at&t stand where a guy waves me over. Stupidly, I go and he "mingles" with me while telling me his phone company is sh*t and that, and I quote, "a pretty girl like me needs the best," .... need I say more? While him and his partner are talking to me this guy, who was easy on the eyes, walks up to me and says, "You're Beautiful," smiles, and walks away. Sadly, all I did was smile and say thank you. Then another guy at JCP, who let me use his phone since mine died, said I was really pretty and that it would be an honor to take me out. Isn't he so sweet?!? Well, because I was annoyed at everyone else I just smiled and walked away. WTF Siena? THEN, when I walk outside, I was harassed by a group of 5 guys outside and a security guard had to escort me to my ride. So, my day was bad minus the two sweet guys that I completely ignored because of all the other screw ups.

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Stay Beautiful, 

Siena(: