It doesn't get worst than this.
Last week my dad let my mom know that his sister is having a meeting families thing with her fiancés family in our house on Friday night and she seemed fine with it i mean she was quite.
A couple days later my sister came home and told me that my aunt was buying a whole buffet For this thing and that's weird because it was meant to be small..
So yesterday was Thursday and my dad came home at like 6pm while my mom was of course going crazy cleaning the house since she came home from work and my siblings were left to deal with themselves (the babies specially) because she was too busy i was supposed to help but i came home from a really long day and i had a final anyways he came home and told my mom that he just found out that it was NOT a meeting it was the actual wedding here in our house.
My mom got pissed off and she started shouting things like this is my house u didn't even talk to me about it u did ask me if i was okay with it i have kids and they're left out with nobody to take care of and bla bla bla she and my dad stayed there shouting and fighting each other for a while.
I took my brother and held him hostage with me in the room and then i went out to get water and I found my dad cleaning the kitchen he then started talking and asked me if it was okay to say no to his own sister like it would be rude and that is true since she suffered a lot she has gotten almost married a lot of times and it never worked out so its understandable for her not to want big wedding kind of thing.
So today i woke up early to study for my final on Monday and i was in my room for a while and a lot happened my aunts came and people came and turned out whole living room to a wedding setting like there is flowers and a big white chair and carpets ... i was shocked when I opened the door. My parents started fighting again and it was intense i even heard my dad say i only stayed with u for the kids which was fun to hear because I thought they loved each other but okay.
My mom does have the right to be angry because she was blind sided and its understandable but she cant act like this and make my dad sound like the bad guy he just said yes because it was rude to say no considering how my aunt and grandmother take care of my brother and sister everyday when my parents are at work so its the least we can do ...
Ahhhh its going to be okay :)