you know that guy i've mentioned several times in the past? the one in my class? the one i thought was into my wing woman?
well, my friends, turns out he apparently likes this girl outside of our class.
and as much as this sounds like this is a bad thing (which it very much is, don't get me wrong), i have found that this has become a turning point for me.
sure, i've been significantly sadder recently. but here's the good news.
i took this new information and made it be the reason to get over him.
it's been confirmed that he likes another girl i have never nor will i ever meet. i can't compete with that, so it's time to move on.
it is of course very hard, getting over him. but i'm managing.
it very much doesn't help that i want to stay friends with him and that we have the same group of friends.
one thing to keep in mind when getting over someone: do not antagonize the person you're trying to get over. it is not your fault nor their fault for not like you back.
and getting cynical about it won't help anyone. just accept it, and distance yourself from them.
now if you're in a position similar to mine and you can't physically distance yourself from them, mentally do it. think "oh right, i'm not supposed to like this person."
i'm trying (key word trying) to stay positive. i'm going to high school in the near future! i can find some babes there, since he isn't going to go to the school i'm going to!
maybe i can find some cute girls too! who knows!
all i know is that i am trying my hardest to not like him anymore and that my effort will pay off. even if it takes a while.
