10 Ways to move on

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10 Ways to move on :

1. Cry as hard as you can. Trust me its better to let yourself  cry it all out.

2. Think of the things he/she did to you. Think why the reationship wasn't right.Question yourself "Am I worth it to receive all of those heartaches he've /she've caused me?" Or you can create your own question and answer it by yourself.Realize,analize and answer those questions.

3. Keep all the things that reminds you of him/her. Put it all in a box and tell a friend close to you to hide it somewhere without  you telling where it is.If in case you really cant afford the pain to keep it or even see those things all over again you can burn it.

4.Cut all connections between you and him/her.Delete his /her number, Unfollow him/her on twitter and IG.I bet you have this eagerness to see his status on facebook,what/where he/she is up to or who's with him/her. You can have these choices Unfollow,Unfriend or block him/her.Unfriending or blocking your ex is not a sign of weakness it is for you to stay focus on healing yourself.I mean how would you move on if he/she keeps appearing on your timeline? Right? Its painful and distractive.

5.Keep yourself busy.Hangout with your friends,spend more time with your family,watch funny movies with your besties,Go on an adventure and etc.Don't be alone most of the time.

6. Keep yourself healthy as hard as you can.Excercise,Choose a healthy diet/foods and drink lots of water.

7.Avoid going to places where you and him hangout most of the time.Avoid seeing him/her as much as possible.Seeing him/her might just turn your mood into pain and sadness.If in case you're in the same school, work place or you are neighbors then its hard but the least you can do if in case you see him/her just smile,pretend and walk away. Do not talk to him/her, You are done, you have closure have nothing to tell him/her,its over.

8. Acceptance. Accept the fact that some things come  but they are not meant to stay.Atleast it gives us life lessons.Experiences makes us more wiser.Know that there is someone out there praying and waiting for you.T he world is big there's someone out there who's much better than that person you are crying for. Heartbreaks
molds ourselves and it deepens our understanding.

9.Pray and tell God all your heartaches.Pray to God all the things you wish for to make you feel okay.God loves you and someday you will know why these things happen to you.Everything happens for a reasons it just takes time to know them but its worth it.The pain helps us to grow and see things in different horizon.

10.Lastly, LOVE YOUR SELF.

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