For all my big girls this is not for all but only for some. Not all of you guys experienced this.
You may think the weight lost is what can make you happy.
Trust... once you lose all that weight you'll still be in the same flesh that you were in when you were a bit bigger.
The lost doesn't bring the 100% happiness, that gets rid of the anxiety. It's within. The love that was never fed, comfort that was never held & respect that was never treated.
That wasn't there when you was big, so weight doesn't heal the mind..
the soul heals everything with you confronting yourself.
My thick, plum, curvy beautiful sisters it's okay to lose the weight but it's never okay to ignore the pain that came with it, that never left.
