What do you do when your best friend, who is a guy, suddenly comes out that he wants to be more than friends. Ive know him for a long time now but ive never seen him that way, we have been there for each other through alot but i just dont see him any other way then a friend, or a brother even. Its like im back in school having this situation. He knows how i feel, i know how he feels.
Its best to stay honest with each other but i dont want to hurt him. Maybe there will be tension between us and awkwardness but he needed to get it off his chest and to know how i felt.
Should i have sugar coated it to save his feelings are was just ripping off the band aid the best way.
These situations happen ever where all around us and people just joke about it 'oh send him/her back to the friend zone' but these sorts of things hurt peoples feelings, it can damage a friendship.
I guess what im trying to say is consider how that other person feels and how they will feel when you gie your answer. You may feel like a complete and utter asshat with a grade A in being a Bitch but is it fair to keep them wondering and thinking you feel different to what you do, especially if you think you like someone else.
Id hionestly like to hear if anyone has any stories or want to ask anyting. i know im shit at writing, maths and history were my strong subject the few years ago that i was at school so sorry about that but hey im only human :)
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Non-Fictionthought id make this as just a place i can write about things going on in my life where if any of you read this maybe it will help or you guys could give me advice. probably not the best place to do this but hey im not amazing with this sort of stuf...
