Psychology -life and fanfic.

CASE STUDY - TRIGGERED REASONS- TREATMENT

******* Note:

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- Cảm phiền các bạn đừng bưng assignment hay research paper của mình đi đâu vì nhiều vấn đề khác nhau.

- Chuyện bên lề : Cuối cùng Jay, Christian và Justin là gì thì chắc chắc bạn cũng sẽ giật mình. Thật ra Jay chính là cách mình hay gọi Jeihorse, Christian cho Christian Chim Chim và đoạn cuối có mention nhẹ Justin- Justin Seagul aka Jungkook sshi ~

CASE STUDY:

Jay is a gay senior at a local college in Pensylvania. His father left when he was young and his mother committed suicide a day after Jay received the scholarship in a reputable high school. He was extremely shocked to see his mother garrote herself. After that, he lived with his aunt in New York for 2 years and then moved back to his house before he enrolled in a local college.

Jay had known that he was a gay even before his mother's death. Fortunately, during years that he was living in New York, Jay was carefully educated about the LGBTQ's community and was clarified that gay is not a sickness. He also made friends with other people in a close LGBTQ community in New York. It seems that after his mother's death, Jay led a happy life and he was not trying to deny his sexual orientation. Among his friends, Jay has a close relationship with Christian, who was a bisexual. Although Jay participated in some speed dating and blind date before, which was arranged by the community, he rarely shows his interest in a specific relationship. Christian is different. Christian sympathized with him and he had a sense of humor. He was well acquainted with Jay since high school and the two usually confided in each other. Christian often encouraged Jay when he was in bad mood and was a listener to every Jay's confession.

Consequently, Jay and Christian decided to be in an official relationship after some Jay's unsuccessful relationship. Jay felt that Christian was his "lost pieces" and he totally outweighed previous guys. Jay maintained his thought that Christian was not his first but he would be his last serious relationship; it became his whole life.

On the three-year anniversary of their dating, Christian confessed to Jay that he no longer loved Jay and was leaving for someone else. Jay later figured out that Christian had a girlfriend because Christian claimed himself at first a bisexual person, meaning that there is no confirmation on whether he only likes men. Thus, Christian was truly shocked and devastated. He felt as if his world and the sky was falling down at the moment he found out the truth.

As the week went by, Jay sank deeply into mixed feelings, including depression and anger. He called and texted Christian several times, begging him to come back and pleading for another chance. However, Christian ignored his call, blocked his number and told his friends that they had already been over for months. Thus, he asked Jay not to interrupt him and to stop disturbing his life. At the same time, he hated Christian for putting him in such misery. In such a long time, he felt as if he lost everything and the sunlight, warm atmosphere already went away, thinking that his door to the light would soon be closed. In other words, he really considered that his life would end soon. At first, his friends in the community sympathize, try to eliminate the idea of "ending" out of his head and cheerfully told him that the sadness and would soon lift. However, they became extremely worried about Jay when they later saw Jay acted strangely. He did not seem to be depressed and angry towards Christian anymore (his friend happily thought depression and anger ended) but then he started drinking and going back to his dorm late at night. He also used drugs but he told his friends that these drugs were sleeping spill because Jay usually felt headache. Hence, he would want to sleep.