If you're not happy with yourself and you can change it, change it. You can be whoever you want to be, it's about how you feel, no one else matters. If changing who you are makes you happy, do it. Don't be ashamed of who you want to be. You shouldn't be ashamed of your insecurities, some of us don't love things about ourselves, it's normal. If you want to touch up your face with makeup, it's fine. If you want to get a boobjob, it's fine. A nose job, totally understandable. You get to decide what you want for yourself, no one should tell you what you should do with your body. Loving yourself comes in all different ways, but let people tell you what to not do with your body. It's yours own it.
-not a poem, just a thought