How To: Survive Your Bullshit

How To: Introduction

Happy 7/11 and welcome!

I have spent countless hours scrolling through the internet, determined to find the perfect self help book.

Hell, I even tried to read a few autobiographies and although they brought me temporary solace, I realized that there's still something out of touch.
Something I haven't read yet. Something that hasn't flipped the switch and turned the invisible light bulb on.
No 'Eureka!' Moment. No self revelation.

I find that my problem with seeking advice or even accepting it is that for me, I cannot simply speak of one incident and then someone can speak their knowledge to me.

No, you would have to know EVERYTHING in order to understand how I feel. Scratch that, because even then, if I had spoken about everything, no one is me.
No one has my emotions.
No one has my upbringing.
So how can I expect anyone to truly get it?

Then I found my niche- writing.

I love to conjure up tales mixed with adulterous acts, drama and action. I dabbled into the hells of this world we live in and found that it brought me some peace as well.

Unfortunately, as you all know, the ink has run dry long ago and my heart very heavy.
I now find myself feeling so deeply that I am unable to articulate the pain I feel. So instead of me putting what I have learned or experienced into a poorly written novel...I told myself that there isn't a book on how to deal with your bullshit....

Then I said it to myself again, "There isn't a book on how to deal with your bullshit....yet."

So after surfing the web to find a blank template for the well known Dummies novels....I thought it was both humorous and appropriate.

Sometimes we need help on the basic shit. The simple stuff because even though it is just that easy....when is it ever really just that easy?

There is always a catch.

So here's the beginning...I have some posts in mind and I'm open to suggestions. If there's something you want me to speak on particular, let me know and I'll do so thoughtfully.

So again, I write for me.

This self help book is to anyone who just needs help surviving the bullshit but...you know...for dummies.

It may be explicitly painful to read but I promise I'll give you a lollipop to distract you while we apply the bandaid.

So feel free to leave in the comment section about the bullshit you deal with.

So if you just can't deal. Or don't know how to.

Welcome.

Let's search for the root of our bullshit and maybe, just maybe....we can start to live with our bullshit and not just survive.