Why do you want to change?

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HINT: You will probably need a piece of paper and something to write with. It's not necessary but it can definitely help. At each of the ❤️~Stop and Think Sections, take time to really think about the questions, even if you don't want to write them down.

Why do you want to change?
This is really important, and there could be a lot of different answers. It could be that you're just ready for a new look. Maybe you're trying to get your crush to notice you. Maybe you are on a journey of self discovery, and this is just a stop. Whatever it is, it's good to really stop and think, what is it about myself that I want to change?

❤️~Stop and think.
Who am I doing this for? Why am I doing this?

What about yourself do you want to change? Do you just not like your haircut? Do you want to loose weight? Pinpoint exactly what you don't like about yourself, and it doesn't have to be just your external features. It can be personality traits and bad habits as well.

For example;
•I don't like any of the clothes in my closet.
•I don't like that my hair is super frizzy.
•I want to get a more flattering haircut.
•I want to drop a few pounds.
•I want to get along with people better and not be so shy, etc.

Finished? Okay, now we are gonna make another list! This time, write down all the things you love about your self. I know however sad it may seem, a few people may read this and think that they don't love anything about themselves. If that's you, I want you to push all those thoughts to the side, and just start writing. Even if it's hard to think of anything, just really try. Okay? Don't be afraid to go a little overboard and get a little vain! Now, let's write!

Example;
• I like my skin.
• I'm a good artist.
• I think I have really pretty eyes.
• I like my strong finger nails.
• I think I'm a very genuine and kind person.

It may seem a little silly, but just have fun with it! Really, anything about yourself that makes you happy is fair game. By now, you should have two lists. Look these over. Is there anything that surprised you at all?

By looking at the DISLIKES list, you can see the areas you want to improve. Now, on to the fun part!

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