i sent a text to my bff of 8 years saying:
"hey so i kinna figures something out about me and its that somwtimes im gonna be a girl and sometimes a boy and sometimes neither and i dont like my name and i kinna wanna be called josh and if u think thats weird then sorry but thats kinna me rn"
and i was so nervous, then she replied as im typing this and she said she dosent care as long as im me and im so happy.