1. Confidence is vital. Self-confidence radiates from the individual. It can contaminate others. It is easier for an individual to convince others when he himself believes in what he is saying.
2. Happy people are far more charismatic than miserable ones. Emotional security is felt by a person who is loved, has a supportive family, and has a good grasp of his emotions and feelings.
3. Being assertive enables one to stand on his own feet. Everyone has the right to express himself and let others know that he exists as an individual with the right to be heard and to stand up for his principles.
4. Be interested in others. Have the patience to get to know others thoroughly. Other people are part of our resources. Almost fifty percent of our learning comes from our interactions with othets.
5. Spontaneity. Avoid spending too much time thinking over what you are to say. Sometimes over-deliberation inhibits us from putting our hunches and intuitions into actions.
6. Make the most of your talents. Decide what you can do best and enjoy mosy, and then devote as much time and energy as possible to that pursuit.
7. Action:Be more of a doer than a mere onlooker. Identify the causes of your inactivity and makr certain they are reasons rather than excuses.