7 reasons to hate love

Reason 6

Wrong sexuality.
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"Girls like girls like boys do, nothing new"

"Some girls like girls some boys got I boyfriend I like them and they like me, we make out hold hads and do all the things that lovers do"

"Cause we're all somewhere in the middle, we're all just looking for love to change the world"

"If you're gay, then you're gay. If you're straight-well that's great. If you're falling between, that's the best way to be."

"Everyone's a little gay"

I am pansexual. I think, gender doesn't matter when you are falling in love with a person.

For me it is normal, to not like only boys but for most people, it's normal to just like the other gender.

Society made heterosexuality the norm, and everyone assumes first when they meet someone new, that he or she is straight. Because that's, what most people are. But I think there shouldn't be a 'norm'.

When I meet new people, I think about if they could be straight or pansexual or gay or something else, but truly it doesn't matter.

I know the sexuality of nearly everyone of my friends but I don't know yours. There are no signs that you are just straight but it's still the norm and I can't easily assume that you could be gay or pansexual or something.

I often thought about just asking you, if you could imagine being pansexual or asexual or about who or what you like, but I noticed, that you don't like to talk about it. And btw I think you wouldn't give me a concrete answer, because... nah... it's you. Your are sort of mysteriously and you are kinda special and not like the rest of society so...

So now there is the problem, that it could get really embarrassing if I just assume that you are maybe open minded and like girls, because if it's not like this and you are hetero and think that everybody should assume the other person is like the norm if you don't know, then it could get strange af.

Also it's kind of strange imagine to flirt with you or something because it's weird. I mean at the moment, we're friends and I don't know... in my mind it's pretty weird. But it's wonderful too.

There are signs that you could like girls and there are signs that you like boys. Are don't know which are stronger ones, so I probably won't ever ask you or assume that I could kiss you without any weird consequences.

For the moment, I am forced to wait, maybe some day you will come out as gay or pan, but until then I have to assume, that you're heterosexual and I have to be okay with the fact, that you won't be crushing on me because you have the wrong sexuality.
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A world without genders would be easier for love, because you could concentrate on the person. I think you are heterosexual and that kills the chance for being together.