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Stalked Via Hacking

June

My partner, Johnny, comes upstairs and finds it cute how I'm checking him out on OKC. I'm confused as I haven't logged in lately, like in months. How could I have been looking at his account? I log in and check it out, there's a list of 7 or so people that have been "checked out" from my account today, Johnny's included, and also someone I work with. Well that's embarrassing. Nope, wasn't me. Time to change my password.

The next day at work I was sure to bring it up and laugh about the fact that my OKC account was hacked to the person who was in my viewed list. I didn't want this person thinking I actually looked at his account. We work too closely together and I already get the impression he may see me as more than his boss.

It always pleased him that his luggage tags printed his middle name and first initial as "Chris,T." This is not the type of person who should see his name written out like he's god's gift to earth. I'll refer to him as Chris.

Chris just laughed off the OKC hacking comment I made. I found it strange he had no questions or comments on the subject. Most people would at least ask if you changed you PW, but nothing from Chris. I brushed off the situation.

A few days later I was out of the office for work. Johnny messages me saying it happened again, that I checked him out on OKC. No, I didn't, but I change my password, again.

July

It's a weekend. I'm having a lazy morning in bed with Johnny. I get a Facebook notification "your account has been logged into from a new location." The ip address points to Chris's home town. My heart's racing, WTF is going on? I take care of the Facebook PW and screed shot the notification. Later that night I get a text from Chris "happy 4th boss, lol." I assume he's drunk and worried about being caught having his access to my Facebook revoked so quickly. No, it can't be him doing this. It's just coincidence, right? Johnny is convinced it's Chris. But that means someone I work with on a very small team is targeting me. This will make work nearly impossible. I can't talk to anyone at work about this, I'll have no way to run my department. The situation will get minimized.

Chris drank a lot. I'd seen it at work events or when we traveled just the 2 of us. He often got out of hand but everyone brushed it off. "He's young." "it was funny." "we've all had those nights, but as long as you show up to work the next day it's fine." I brought it up to him once. "Hey Chris, you need to be more cautious about how much you drink at work events." He didn't speak to me for 3 days. I offended him, told him that "He's not allowed to have fun at work events" he told me when he finally snapped at me. I recoiled. He's 3 times my size and we're in a secluded space at work.

One time while traveling with just us 2 I got very sick. I told him I couldn't make it out for dinner so Chris offered to pick something up from a nearby store. He knocked on my room door and handed me the water he got me. He tried to make small talk as I thanked him and indicated I was going to lay down. It was apparent by his stance in my hotel room doorway he wanted to come in. He moved an inch closer and I said good night, shut my door and locked every lock I could. It wasn't the only time he made me feel uncomfortable.

I hadn't noticed any other accounts being hacked for a while. I was cautious around Chris. Even dissociated when I could. I avoided work outings if he was going. Would back out of lunch plans that he decided to go to once he knew I was going. But we often had to work very closely. We were a team after all. I couldn't do my job without him, and him without me.

November

Johnny was online checking out his fetlife account one evening. He saw I was also online via the old messenger they used to have. Johnny asks me if I'm logged in. I'm not. Again my hearts racing. It's different this time though. The violations are beginning to feel commonplace, normal, expected. But this hacking is extreme. No one outside of my fetlife friends knows about this account. Definitely no one I work with. And there's some faceless nude photos of me there.