Here are just some notes I like to give people when falling in love, I've been through heartbreak before and I've been through young love and I know every feeling, every touch, every cry that mends in the lines of the word love.
The beginning:
You've fallen in love
One day you're gonna hit the ground
But for now, enjoy the time you have, you're at the beginning so stop thinking about the ending.
If you love them,
You will do whatever it takes to be with them until the end of the world
Stop playing hard to get
And stop trying to flirt with others to make them feel jealous
It makes them feel worthless
And not good enough.
The fighting:
You will fight
You will cry
Even the tiniest things might be the cause
but there is always a conclusion to the argument.
Do not pull up past situations
Look into the future,
Looking behind into the past will slow you down.
Always try to be calm, resolve things easily even if it's not the ending you wanted
But, if you are ever going through a situation where you don't feel safe,
Or you're having breakdowns, or just not feeling right
Trust yourself, not the other person
Because they do not feel what you are feeling and do not understand
The loving:
Do not be forced,
To do anything.
You decide when you are ready and they decide when they are ready
Be gentle,
Soft
Love them as if it was the last day on earth
Treat them like a king or a queen
If you are not loved enough,
You are not deserved.
The ending:
They will run through your mind every second of every minute
You will fall
You will hit that ground
But you will rise back up
You need to follow and understand,
That it was not meant to be
Erase any memories,
Photos.
Exercise regularly, eat well.
Make yourself feel good
You have to put yourself first before anyone else
And you need to make sure you have a mended relationship with yourself before you have a relationship with anyone else.
And that's all I have to say but make sure you're happy, to have a happy relationship :)
