A Girl Dreams And Problems .... part 1

teenage girl problems... part 3.3

Continuation of part 3

Peer pressure :

Peer pressure forces teenage girls to behave certain way that gives them a sense  of belongingness. By giving into peer pressure  they feel one with their peers. This even leads them to take up habits. That they otherwise arent supposed to or interested  in.

Solution:

*explain to your daughter what peer preesure is to helpher identify it.
*tell her that she is unique in her own way and amy choose to like a certain band that her peers might not approve of she can choose to be a certain way without  feeling any detachment from her peers.
*heropinions,views,choices,hobbies,fashion sense and even eating habits make her entirely what she is. She need to give in to any peer pressure just to make her peers feel good.

Substance use:

This is a major problem that most teenagers, girls and boys, face across the world today. In most cases,peer pressure introduces teenage girls to this dangerous habit. Teenage girls retort to substance use to ease their stress, feel secure, and assured from within.

Solution:

*talk to your young girl about side effects ofand detrimental effects of substance use.
*explain how these give temporary good feeling while ruining her system, body, mind and soul from within.
*if she wants to try a hand at drinking, make her to do it in your presence. Let her experience everything but only under your supervision and in your presence.

Menstruation :

This is the time your teenage girl will enter her menstruation  phase for the first time. She might develop a lot of mis conceptions and queries too in regard to her menstruation phase for the first timeand  menstruation  cycle too.

Solution:

*clear all her doubts first.
*make her accept the fact that this process is natural. Tell her how every girl goes throughthis in her lifeand that is part of life and that is part of leading a normal life.
* teaching her how to deal with emergency situations. Tell her to always carry on extra pair of underwear ,sanitary napkins, in her bag.
*she must also keep  few medicines with her always, in case she suffers from headache or bad menstrual cramps.
*teach her how to track her monthly periods and talks to her about  pms -ing too.

Depression:

Teenage girls can get affected  by any random thing. When things dont go their way, or when they dont meer the standards  that their peees have maintained, they feel pressurized and go into depression  .low grades, break up,high parental expectations,weight gain weight, substance use  these are some of the main factors that trigger depression and are the major teen girl issues.

Solution:

*look for signs of depression  in your teenage girl.
* if you think she is losing interest suddenly in everything she does, talk to her about it.
*see to it that she behavea normally remains happy and occupied in various activities that she enjoys.
*excess desire to sleep or total sleep deprivation is also a sign of depression. Also look for signs like if she talks about suddenly about death, suicide, etc. Seek professional  help immediately.