Ask and Dare: The Big Eight [Being Edited]

Very Important Please read (not about the book)

This chapter is dedicated to the things that have been happening around where I live. In less than a month 3 young men, the same age as me and one of them slightly older, took their own life's away.

This is a very important topic. It's honestly upsetting to see that people get to the point they harm themselves and even come to the point of taking away their own life's.

If anyone, and I mean anyone is in the position of wanting to take their life away or is not feeling it and is considering harming themselves or worse, please, and I mean please contact me. I am always here to help and give a hand and even if I can't help I am sure I can point you in the right direction.

This is very serious and as I am aware that all those suicides took place where I live, under my very nose, I don't want this happening anywhere else.

So please message me if there is anything going on that you would like help with.

I know for a fact that these young men didn't know where to turn to, especially since people always see guys as the ones that should be strong and "man up", which pushes them away from asking for help.

Women are always seen as the emotional ones who can get help while men are seen as the stronger ones that show weakness through showing emotions.

And that's wrong!

Men have the right to show emotions, it's not because their weak, it's because they were strong for too long and they can't take it sometimes. They are humen too and they have the right to show emotions without being called a girl.

I as a girl who was always seen as week and that I can't do anything on my own, I thought when I showed emotions, I was weak.

I was always told, when ever I got emotional or cried or got scared, that it's not right for me to do that and that I shouldn't show my weakness and that I should stand strong because emotions aren't good for me.

But people who were telling me this were wrong. Just because I was showing emotions or perhaps even showing a bit of weakness didn't mean that I was weak overall, it just showed that I am a human too and not all humen can stand strong forever, because sometimes they have their days when they need help and they show emotions, but that's what makes them stronger.

I want, by telling you all this, for everyone to know that there are people there to help you, no matter how much you think you are alone, you really aren't, and please never think that showing emotions is being weak because that's what makes you a human and you have the right to have emotions and to be sad.

So please, who ever is reading this, please spread the awareness, spread my message, and let all people hear this so we can all help one another, because the world can be a bad place but we all can make it that bit better by sticking together and helping each other, and showing people that they shouldn't be afraid to be themselves and show their weaknesses. They should embrace being what they are.

You all are human and you have the right to feel and be heard like everyone else.

So please if you are reading this, spread what I said everywhere you can so that we all see it and spread it throughout the earth if we can. So that those 3 poor young boys life's won't go to waist.

Thank you for reading and I am sure we all can make a change if you please try.

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I've tagged you all here because at least once we've met each other or you might be part of this book and I know you all will read this and spread the word because that's very important to me and I hope you know this.

If someone who I haven't tagged will see this please don't just vote and leave but please spread the word, spread the awareness, and not just on wattpad but everywhere else so that all people know that we are here.

Good places to spread the awareness is social media, as well as here so perhaps Facebook, Tumblr, even Instagram or Twitter which is quite a good one too.

My twitter is wiktoria0028 and it's a private account but if you want to spread awareness there, follow me and tag me so I can retweet it and see what's happening.

If you have seen this and are planning on spreading awareness and you are planning on doing it here as well please tag me there too so I can see because I would be more than happy if I know that people are taking this seriously because we really should as one of the things that cause such things is cruel people on social media, and because of the fact young people and people in general use it these days it's good to spread that awareness through social media where it's going to be seen the most.

I hope people who I tagged, whether they remember who I am or not, will spread the word because this is very important.

Thank you for taking time and reading it.

~Vicky