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Tips: GET REAL

A lot of you must be wondering why sometimes he/she kinda don't wanna talk to you right? here's some tips that you may use in your love life. Hope it helps though. 

1. Take it slow: Take it slow. Don't rush. Love him/her bit by bit. In that way, you won't get tired of each other fast. 

2. Don't compare: Do not even think of comparing him/her to one of your ex's. Why? Because that will bring them down and they will think "Oh I'm not good enough." and will try so hard that it hurts. 

3. Get to know each other: Talk. Even if you have known each other for 3 or 5 years. Still, it helps to talk about their history and their favourites and what nots.

4. Don't treat your guy like your guy friends: If he treats you like a princess, he's not that guy who comes around the corner to break you apart.

5. Don't bring them down at their peak: You know like they are preparing for an exam or graduating. If you want to break up, that's not the time. If you can't love no more, pretend.

6. Remind him/her you're his/her man/lady: From time to time, tell them they are yours and show how much you care.

7. Guys tend to get jealous: You might not see it, or they would just joke about it, but they do get jealous at times.

8. Most girls don't like guys who cuss at an inappropriate time: Girls love it when you act like a gentleman instead of having that swag shit. 

9. Give them attention: Everyone needs attention all the time. 

10. People cry, no matter how brave they look: Even guys. Girls too for that matter. 

11. Don't play with emotions: It's not cool. 

12. Change for the better good: If you do drugs and she don't like it, stop. Because if she means the world to you, you will stop. 

13. Listen to her: Don't even bother talking about yourself first. Let her do the talking. Girls love it when a guy really listen and not judge her. Give her advice and if you can't, just comfort her so that she knows you're really there for her.

14. Give them your iPod/phone/mp3: Let them listen to one of your favourite songs. If he/she has none to give you, don't force.

15. Get her to watch one of your favourite movies: Get hher to watch one of your favourites and in return, you'll watch 10 movies of her choice.

16. Be straight to the point: Guys hate it when their  girlfriends ignores them. They hate it even more when you talk to his guy bestfriend/friends more than you do with him. Tell them what's bothering you. He might be mad at first but soon he'll calm down and will respect what you'll say and try to make things right. 

17. You both are humans, deal with it: He/she is not perfect. Neither are you. So drop it. Say sorry and cuddle each other. Unless one of you cheats, well that's a different story.

18. Don't let him drown: Don't be with him and make him happy and all and snap, you broke off with him over a matter of what we call stupid. This can go vice versa too. 

19. Take interest: If he takes interest in what you do (reading, movies etc.) and he doesn't mind if you don't take up of what he likes, keep him.

20. Society is not always right: If you care about what the society tells you about both of you, go back to being single.

21. Surprise her: Give her hugs from the back. Or little notes saying you love her. It might be so little, but as they say, it's the little things that matter. And also girls love it when we do that. Well most of them.

22. Don't force: Forcing is bad. This is not Star Wars people. But if you need to, Well, I don't know. Suit yourself. 

24. Good morning/night texts: Give him/her that. It's just something little but it means a lot. 

WHAT IF YOU'RE GOING THROUGH A BREAK/BREAK-UP PERIOD?

1. Let it all out: Cry. No exception if you're a dude. Cry your heart out. You love him/her that it hurts.

2. Write: Get a diary, write the pros and cons of this break up. 

3. Wait: You're in the taking-a-break period? Wait. There's no point in talking to them if you're in that period because it'll get worse. 

4. Move on: Time will heal your feeling. It will hurt in the process, but you'll get through it. 

5. What if he/she comes back?: Think twice. Even if you love him/her dearly. Think throughly.Don't rush. It's a relationship, not a game. 

6. Go out to your best friends: Go tell them about it. Some might give you advices as they have experienced it, some might even lash out to you that it's your fault. But in the end, take all of that as an advice for your future relationship. 

7. Don't be a monster: Don't think she/he makes you a monster. You can be better. Be a better. If you stopped taking drugs because of him/her, then continue. Don't revert because you're at your weak point and everyone will start laughing at you.

8. Pray: Pray that he/she is in a good condition. No matter what they have done to you, it is always good to pray for them. Shows that you are mature in handling the situation. 

9. Pop in a CD of your favourite rock band: And rock out to it. Hey, helps me all the time. 

10. Be efficient: You can do things to flush it all out like working.

11. Be friends: Because that's the best you can do. Not close as before, but good to know you are fine with each other.

If there are any other tips, do post them in the comments section! :D