Ok, maybe I am exaggerating a bit in the title.
This guy, let's call him J, is a classmate of mine and is a friend of my friend. Let's call my friend A.
So, J and A seem to be good friends. In the beginning of our 1:st year me, A, J and two other people was kind of a squad. We were all friends, although now we split up a bit. It's not like we're not friends anymore but I think you get what I mean.
So, this guy, J.
First of all, he said, and I can see it on his behavior that he does not want to sit beside me in english class, where he was placed by the TEACHER and he always sits somewhere else.
Over all, he is very short to me and seems to avoid my presence.
I have done nothing to him, so I am starting to get annoyed by this.
I thought he was nice in the beginning but now, as he has shown that he clearly have something against me, I have started to feel defencive against him.
I have thought about just asking, straight up what it is that he dislikes so much about me but maybe that'll not be a very great way to get the knowledge.
I am afraid of conflicts as may come through but I am starting to get tired of avoiding conflicts all the time. I seem to want to just ask what the problem is.
The only reason I can think of is that he asked me once if I like (as a friend) a friend of mine (who can be viewed as mean when he does not mean things that way and he can be a bit annoying in class and vice versa) and I said yes, because I have nothing against him. I believe that is because I understand his behavior and many others don't. He is simply misunderstood.
Also I think he is one of VERY few that actualy get me a little bit.
I want you to know that I am a very "poker face" person. I have been told by people that I am an expert at not saying anything about myself and I agree. The only reason I am open to telling you, who ever reads this, all of this is that you have no idea of who I am nor those I hang out with, therefore you cannot do any harm.
As I said, I am getting very annoyed about this guy so I may ask straight up. If I do, I'll let you know.
I think, my temper has gotten a bit shorter now that my ex best friend just stopped talking to me. I have been feeling agitaded about it.
It is not good for me to walk around and think about this and it makes me annoyed
I hope you had a good or better day <3
xoxo Joanne
