Reality of Love

Love Never Lies

If you gave someone your all, it would be so wrong to blame yourself for it ever ending. No matter the fight, no matter what you said out of anger or sadness. Those were your true feelings and that is all that you should focus on. If you were upset you must have had a reason for it, who wants to be upset with their loved one? If you were crying over something they did, there is a reason for that and it is always worth mentioning. If it becomes a problem about how often you are upset, you are still not the problem. It means that they can no longer take the bad that can happen in any relationship. 

The fights can be rough but what matters is if it is worked through. You know they love you back if they are willing to work through things, willing to apologize if they upset you, but you have to do the same. Love isn't a one way street, it is a messy highway, with crashes all over the place. 

So what do I mean when I say that love never lies? Truly I am talking about the raw emotion that comes with loving someone. Everything is going to feel so intense with that person but that is love.  Your emotions will truly tell you the truth about all of the excuses you have fed yourself. After all of the reasons do you still feel upset? This is something I would always ask myself, it meant that I couldn't even believe my own excuse. Even if my friends could be convinced by it that doesn't mean that I had persuaded myself. I feel that is what had truly saved me from pushing myself to be someone I don't want to be; just to make the person I loved, love me back. You should never do that to yourself " for the sake of love" because then it wouldn't be true love. 

Those lies that you feed to yourself only live for so long because the same issue you have tried to look past will come up again and again; each time it will sting just a bit more than it did the time before. This is why I say love doesn't lie, it tells you the truth of not only the love that you have but the love they have for you.

The word love for me has become raw. But if someone had told me even a piece of what I have written out, I feel that parts of me would still be whole. Knowing what I know now has made me happy with myself, because throughout all of it I have been able to love myself and in the end I know I can go without another companion because I am happy with the companion I have made for myself.